Tease Her - Female Libido
As you know, I usually back up almost everything I write with studies or the
conclusions of leading researchers. However, I have to admit in this case
I have no such backing to prove what I am about to write: I just know it
works and it will work a significant percentage of women, so try it for
yourself.
Try these simple rules for a day or two:
1) No Direct Genital Contact Until She Requests You.
You are going to stimulate her but not by direct touch. For most women an
indirect approach will drive them much more wild than the direct approach.
Most women, if you touch, squeeze or play with them, will physically
enjoy the sensation. But here's what so many guys miss: afterwards
females are very disturbed unless there has been a strong emotional connection.
After this pattern is repeated a few times, the woman does not want to make
love.
2) Orgasms Are Secondary. Remember: you
can make a woman orgasm three times in a row and she'll feel physically
fantastic. But if there is no connection, she will feel empty, lonely,
distrubed and hurt shortly afterward. Emotions are the gateway and the only
gateway for the vast majority of females out there.
3) Do Not Talk About Making Love. Remember:
you want her to come to you or, at least, be ready for your slightest advance.
4) Hug Her. If you don't enjoy hugging a
beautiful woman, then I don't know what's wrong with you.
5) Hold Her Hand. In case you didn't know,
those ten fingers on her hand were made for one and only reason: to walk
hand in hand with you.
6) Talk to Her. You might try listening a
little as well.
7) Kiss Her. The mouth is great but keep in
mind the other top erogenous zones of a woman's body.
Sexologists
Dorian Solot and Marshall Miller surveyed
women and found that their Top Erogenous Zones were the following: Neck
(65%), Breasts (24%), Nipples (20%), Thighs (20%) and Back (17%). I
recommend concentrating on the neck, since it so overwhelmingly high on the
list. In fact, notice how it beat out the breast are by about 50%. I
would also include the back in your target area. Again, in the spirit of not
violating my rules #1 and #2, avoid the breast and thigh areas - you're trying
to be subtle here.
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8) Massage Her. I already covered this here.
9) Joke with Her.
10) Smile. I don't care if you lost your job,
the dog ran away and the your kid just backed the car into the mailbox - give
her a smile that shows you think about her above all the problems and busyness of
life.
11) Favors. Do her a few favors.
Simple repeat #4 through #11 throughout the day and by the end of the day most
women will be ready. Remember that woman are stimulated generally by
Oxytocin and so touch and emotions are what drive her wild.
Again, you should be enjoying all these things, so it's not manipulation, it's
just good common sense.
And, of course, if you are not doing #4 through #11, I hope you haven't been
surprised at her reaction in and around the bedroom. Females are not as
unpredictable as we guys like to think. It's not that females are unpredictable,
it's generally that we are so emotionally unreliable.
So get busy. Every item above is enjoyable, especially with an attractive
female. And all are very easy. I'm not asking you to build a 1,500
square foot addition onto the back of your home or trench a 30 foot sewer line
with hand shovel. I'm just asking for you to take a little time out of you
day for the things that females, and you too if you are honest with yourself,
crave and need. There is no reason not to do any of them, except for
laziness or stupidity.
You know that women love babies and puppies. Do you really think that a
gentle, compassionate creature such as that is going to want to go to bed if you
can't do something so simple as an occasional kiss, hug or discussion?
More importantly, you will find that these are all actually foreplay for her. You
are investing in the day for a payoff at night so to speak. Seriously, a
few gentle kisses will drive her much more crazy than anything else you could
do.
And the nice thing about females is they don't forget. The smile, the kind
words, the gentle kiss on the back of the neck - they will come back to you
later...
