I just wanted to say a few things here in defense of the wives of men with Low T.
We are all suffering from this condition. It is very difficult to maintain a relationship with a man who shows no interest in you sexually. Or really any other way for that matter. It smashes your self esteem when he doesn't act one bit interested for weeks, months or even years.
It becomes even harder to maintain any amount of self confidence as women age. At least when you are young you occasionally get admiring glances or comments from other men but that decreases with age. And that is something that is sometimes hard to just take as a compliment and not act on too. Note there is no disrespect meant toward my husband here, but that is another thing he didn't even care about over the years.
Not only do women involved with Low T men not have much self confidence but there is always that nagging fear that if he doesn't want you, he must be getting his satisfaction elsewhere.
My husband feels so foggy, depressed and has almost no memory most of the time. He can't even pursue his own treatment. All he does is work eat and sleep. And so as the loving wife who wants to see a change, all of the research, telephone calls, appointment setting, and general management of the problem as well as all other household duties fall to me. I raised our 4 kids pretty much by myself and I'm even the one who works on our cars.
Quite frankly there have been times when I just want to scream MAN UP!!! And honestly, I probably have at times. And Doctors only promote the crazy by not taking this condition seriously.
I celebrated my 18th wedding anniversary with my husband yesterday and we have been together for 22 years but it has not been easy to make it this far.
So I have to applaud any woman who is in my situation and seeks to help her husband through this. The ride is rough and the benefits may seem really slim for a long time. But hopefully this will be a place where women can come and get the information they need to better the situation and help the husbands who are too low to help themselves.
Thumbs up to Ms. Humble86 and Ms. Anonymous11
And thank you to all of the men sharing knowledge here for the benefit of us all.