My wife has hormone issues of her own, so that is part of the problem. Also, she is fed up with my years of unending lack of motivation. If I can feel better enough, and get some things done at home, and not fall asleep all over the place, then things should improve on their own with time. My kids tell me all I ever do is sleep, it is very sad. I am feeling much better at work, and some better at home as well over the last two weeks. Of course, I have lived this way for so long now (almost 30 years), that I have my doubts this will work long term. It will take time for me to feel safe to get my hopes up that high. I don't want my hopes to be crushed in a instant, so I keep them down a little, for now. I will continue to do what I can. I was running often up until a month or so ago, then I just started sleeping instead. I plan to get back into regular exercise. I eat fairly well, try to limit sugar and maximize vegatables/fruit. I can certain improve my diet as well though. I generally make sure I get plenty of sleep. Finances have been an issue, so I keep thinking "when I feel better I'll do more work on the side". I'm not sure about that though. I like the stress level of my job now. I work hard for 8 hours, feeling the pressure to produce results, and then I just walk away. The work is important to me as well. If I add outside work, I will make more money, but I'll add extra negative stress. I may just do my main job, wait for raises in a couple of years, then I should be ok with finances. I can just find a way to get by in the meantime.